Ignorance kills humanity

Due to the fast pace society we lived in,  we tend to shut our eyes to the real things happening that we see,  cover our ears from the experiences we heard and shut our mouth from asking and voice out our opinions.  

It is just sad how we have been brought up this days. Life is not owned by us.  We did not know when we will leave this world and losing the people we loved,  things that we owned,  status and power we have and wealth we made. It is all planned by the almighty. 

In whatever religion we are in,  we were taught on fate, Respect, moral and discipline. Even though some may not believe in God. But to believe it or not it’s already been planned out accordingly.

Have we ever had a Dejavu that we feel we experience it before? 

Those who believe in religion,  I am sure we heard stories and advices from our prophets or the wise ones.  Dont you feel it’s a repeatation? 

Stories been told,  experiences been shared and signs been shown are all that we should rely on and not to repeat the same mistake others have made.  Instead we chose to experience it ourself and ignore the reality. But when it hits us,  we get depressed, we blame ourself  or others,  we hurt ourselves and unknowingly we hurt our loved ones too. 

I speak through experiences that I am going through right now. I regret for not believing and taking in  to every stories and advices I get,  books/magazines I read and incident I come across. 

None of us are perfect but that doesn’t mean we are allowed to keep making the same mistakes.  

I think I will laughed and cried at myself if I were to recreate or replay the story of my life from the day I start breathing the air till now. 

The episode of love, which i started from the terms ‘steady’  to ‘honeyboo’ to ‘dear’ and many more.  

The episode of sorrow from the depression I had through love,  bully, being scolded by teachers  and punished by my parents and etc.  

The episode of relieve and satisfaction when I  had a vacation, finishing my school assignment or work projects, the achievements, taking drugs to enjoy life,  have a multiple sex buddies and whatever i can relate to this episode. 

The episode of humour when my friends and I got caught shoplifting, when we go to theme parks and etc. 

All these sweet, salty and sour memories will be remembered and let’s move forward and enjoy the roller coaster ride of life. Let’s learn from others and make the right choice in our life. 

Why do I start smoking? 

Why do I smoke? Why is it so hard to fight the temptation and the urge?  How can I change this habit?  How people around me can help me not to smoke?

Those  are the questions I asked myself. Somehow I regret to start smoking.  I can’t understand  why is so hard to get rid the habit of smoking.  In my honest opinion the following were the cause for the urge to smoke;

  • People around you that smoke. 
  • Stressful environment 
  • Low self esteem
  •  Use to it 
  • Kinda cool to smoke. Lol
  • Kill time.. But unknowingly kill ur self too.

Its been 2months I stopped but suddenly I start again.  I may need a counselling for this as this is not a good habit to have.  

Even I have tried many ways to replace the temptation but still doesn’t work. For example

  • Eat sweet
  • Drink coffee
  • Make myself busy
  • Listen to hypnosis on YouTube which relate to this 
  • And many more… 

Therefore,  if there’s anyone out there who come across this blog and wish to help mankind in doing good deeds please just drop a comment below.  Share some kindness and care to the human and world.  As we are actually lack of it due to the  fast pace and competitive of a living lifestyle now. 

My Beauty (Mimi)  and the Beast (Coco) 

Hey all!

Today I would like to share you few beautiful pictures on my beauty and the beast.  They have been more than a pet for me.  They have been accompanied me when I’m sad and happy. 

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I cant imagine myself being alone going through this without them.  I bet I will fall sicker easily. 

A week of eye twichting

So many articles and stories through the net I have  search in order  to find the meaning  of eye twitching on my  left side.  

It is so frustrating as its already been more than a week I had this twitches.  The net just stating too much nonsense  things till I’m lazy and tired to read and believed.  

As i know for malay culture,  it means I’m gonna meet  a close friends that i long never meet.  But who will that be? And some say Im gonna meet my old enemy. Lol. 

As for the Chinese culture it means something  good gonna happen. And I’ve been patiencely  waiting for that to happen.  But to be honest. It has been more than a week my left eye keep twitching.  I just want it to stop.  It is so annoying. 

So those who come across my blog and has a solution for it do let me know.. 

Nothing that last forever

The latest news on Brangelina had brought me to blog, nothing will last forever

It is sad and disappointing if this news is true.  As far as I know I always thought their relationship would last till their last breath but what happened now? I believe not only me that have been thinking or been  looking up to them as the best example in relationship of a celebrity that able to go through ups and downs together but now they are not.  

Destiny or fate is not set or planned by us.  Everything happened to us already stated in our record book of life that God hold on to.  We as a human beings we just have to go through different challenges, paths, meeting new people, experience new things in God’s will.  So we don’t have to get stressed up when things doesn’t go our way.  

Sometimes we met a new person and it lead us to a happier life. 

 Sometimes we encounter new situation for us to learn from our mistakes and never repeat it again. 

Sometimes we come across a dilemma where we have to choose but as we know we dnt know what’s God had planned for us.

In my blogs,  I never missed saying things like everything happen for a reason.  If God fate us with something to be forever then it will b forever but if not, even how hard we try to get or persuade we still never gonna get it.  

We as a human just need to remember any choice we made will still lead us to happiness and sadness so no point we keep holding it, if it suffers us,  no point stressing up if we can’t get it,  no point we wait if it’s not meant for us.  

We should instead take action and do something to change for a better life. 

Things that we love may be missing and we might not get it back so don’t cry upon it.  

A person we love,  may continuously hurting us then no point we endure it if chances already given to them so many times.  

Person we love leaves us,  no point we cry over it for years and years because he will never come back.  So let’s move on and act upon to our happiness and not hurting ourself by thinking too much,  blaming ourself and making ourself sick and feel useless.  

Do we deserve a second chance

None of us can run away from problems and challenges.  Some problems have the easy way out and some require patience and time.  

Problems may build up a person’s self esteem   and make them to be prepare for the worst to come but for the weak ones it will just make them feel small, troubled and useless.  Due to that they stumble and do all sort of things that could hurt themselves.  

Even though they know on the consequences   of every action they made but the problems just keep playing through their minds and haunts them every minutes. They just need a sensation of relieve and just wish to be happy for a little at that moment.  That is when the weak ones will ll do all sort of things for example,  consume drugs, being alcoholic, mixed up with wrong company or group of people,  have fun for self satisfaction and many more.  

At this moment of escaping of reality,  they feel like King and Queen.  They don’t even bother on what others gotta say about them that’s how troubled they were. 

 So now the question,  do they deserves a second chance? 

Personally from experience,  I believe we deserve a second chance. 

 Who are you  to punish us and never give us a room to change?  Even God do accept our prayers if we sincerely repent and pray to him.  

We have to understand the whole story before we blame and accuse them. They might not be on fault maybe they just got trapped. 

As for my situation sometimes I feel that I deserves this punishment from the almighty but at times I questioned myself why must it be me, there’s other people that is worst behavior and action than me why didn’t they get it or experience it.   

All I can say now,  I am accepting all the challenges with an open arm to fight and allow him to set my fate. 

I strongly believed that everything happen for a reason.  Like what many Wiseman says ‘you are the chosen one,  that shows how love he has for you.  It is time for you to go back to the right path and find him’   

I WOULD LIKE TO GIVE A SHOUT OUT TO ALL OF THOSE PEOPLE WHOSE FACING PROBLEMS.  DO NOT FEAR,  HE WILL ALWAYS HEAR US.  BE SINCERE,  ACT RESPONSIBLY, AND CHOOSE THE RIGHT DECISION TO BENEFIT AND CHANGE UR LIFE AND THE LOVED ONES. 

WE ARE NOT GONNA BE HERE FOREVER SO STOP THINKING TOO MUCH! STOP STRESSING UP!  STOP HURTING OURSELF! STOP DISRESPECTING OURSELF!  

LET US ALL ENJOY THE MOMENT THAT WE ARE LEFT WITH AND PRAY TO HIM FOR HAPPINESS,  HEALTH,  PROSPERITY AND GUIDANCE FOR US TO FOLLOW.  Ameen.

Life of choice

As a human beings,  we faced many challenges in every corner of our life.  Problems after problems will come by and test us.  

 Why life is so unfair? 

Why life is so difficult? 

Why can’t I have a peace of mind  in life? 

Why life doesn’t go as I planned? 

Why do I have to face this problems?

Many a times I told and share my friends that I know,  life will only be easy and free when you no more longer breathe.  All things that happen to us have planned by the almighty.  He knows our strength and weakness.  But the question now did we know ours? I doubt so.. 

Not all of us can accept the challenges that were thrown to us. I always believed in life we were given many routes of choices to choose,  either one will lead us to happiness and sadness.   I don’t think there’s problems that can’t be solved. 

Humans mistakes or problems were just a repeatation,  we just need to learn from others and improvise it and move on. Some just need to repeat in order  to kill their curiosity. But did we know that curiosity is not all good to have.  We don’t have to be curious.  We don’t have to experience certain things in order to know it.  

One mistakes we made is WE ARE NOT TAKING A RESPONSIBLE DESICION AND WE DON’T RESPECT OURSELF. I know not all but only some of us but I say this through my experiences.  

I am a person who always wanted to know and open to new things.  Sometimes I don’t even realise that I am addicted to it.  I am referring  to all different types of things from things we consume,  places we go,  feeling on our body and many more. Sometimes we were blinded by the enjoyment till we forget of the outcomes.

Most of us agreed that we have to show some respect to others but ARE WE ACTUALLY RESPECTING OURSELF

WHY DO WE HAVE TO HURT OURSELF JUST FOR SOMETHING SUCH AS FAME, STATUS, LOVE AND POWER? 

ARE WE MADE TO BE LIKE THIS? WHERE IS THE LOVE? 

WHY DO WE CARE SO MUCH ON WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT US? 

WHY WE FEEL SO SELF CONSCIOUS ON EVERY ACTION WE MADE? 

WHY  MUST WE COMPETING WITH OTHERS?

 Many old minded people think that all problems solved in the same way or method but do they even realise that our life now gets harder and harder? Why is that so? 

Honestly,  I would blame technologies  that actually make us this way.  We were brainwashed,  we were given an expectation to achieve,  we were fooled by the things we see.  

Try imagine we living in a jungle or a small town away from high technologies. Do you think we will have such mindset? I doubt so 

Why do we have to care on what we wear? 

Why do we have to share our problems to technologies than talking to our parents.  

but this is a reality,  we have to compete to live,  we think to feel,  the only advise I could say is we actually should follow our pattion in doing something from there we will start to love the things we do,  we accepted challenges we face,  we respect ourself better.  We don’t even have to think so much on what other feels. … 

THIS IS LIFE…..